To love a woman

I absolutely love these kind of texts! So I share this one I read recently and was inspired.


One who, whether mystical or not, wild or not, contains all of the multitudes of the Universe.

Whether her hair is a lion’s mane and she speaks freely,

Or she is quiet and calm and poised but aware,

The only difference is what you perceive.

There are not types of women,

There are just energies waiting to be unleashed.

Within every woman you ever greet is the goddess¬†‚ÄĒ

And that is the embodiment of which she so chooses to align with.

Not all goddesses are fire and charm and outrageous action,

Some are the sweet flowing river of love that comes from observation and seeking comfort.

Some are the still of the morning hours when nothing is yet moving,

Some are the screeching howl into the night that shakes the trees like a breeze and causes the stars drop their cloaks.

Some are long, lazy afternoons of dripping skin and pen to paper.

Some are all questions and careful movements and lace-covered thought processes.

Some are treasures, some are flames, some are darkness, some are rage.

The truth is, all of these qualities are at home together, in a tangle, carefully constructed, much as a snowflake, as each gorgeous creature on this planet that identifies as a woman, is then also a snowflake of a goddess. Unique, never to be repeated, demure or boisterous, tamed or unstoppable. In whatever form she comes in, she is the embodiment of all things.

What is not blatantly obvious is also her secret magic, the layers that reveal themselves through time and trust and the undoing quality of surrender.

No matter her loudness or stillness, her desire, most often, is to find the one who can hold space for the complete undoing of her knots and ties.

She wishes to unleash herself, in whatever form that takes, to find the catharsis of letting go completely.

Relaxing the muscles, releasing her mind, participating in the revolutionary act of melting.

The great letting go.

The release.

The deep swim into the ocean that holds her electricity without so much as a second guess.

If you wish to love a goddess, love the fact that however she presents herself is only a small sliver of the kaleidoscopic creature she truly exists as.

And this is the power of women:¬†mystery. Magic. Creativity, sexuality, grace, strength ‚ÄĒ¬†the gift of witnessing what it means to be able to create and destroy at the drop of a hat. All of Mother Nature‚Äôs storms and sunsets rolled into one being, capable equally of being tempestuous and seductive, disarming and alluring.

If you wish to love a goddess, look beyond her presence in the world and into the way she thinks and loves and dreams ‚ÄĒ¬†for a timid exterior may also indicate a wildfire that has yet to grow. If you wish to love a goddess, nurture her whims with your strength and structure so she feels safe to be herself, which is the greatest gift you can give.

If you wish to love a goddess, speak to her, and listen. Let her every impulse roll off of her tongue until she greets the truth at the tip. Let the inhale and exhale of the breath of her emotions ride like waves over you ‚ÄĒ¬†high and low tides ‚ÄĒ¬†times to expand, times to retreat.

Forget not that you are both human animals.

Love her enough to be gentle. Love her enough to ravish every cell of her being so completely the letters of your name are etched into her energy like constellations.

Traces left by fingertips are no comparison for what you can do with your love.

Fill her. With all things. Your trust, your confidence, your appreciation, your wisdom, your unshakable presence.

Find roots in your being that can grow deep enough that you will not quake when she is called to release rage, or fear, or sadness ‚ÄĒ¬†she carries the weight of the world in her womb, and the more safe she feels to move this through and out of her body, the more you both will ascend, heal, and transform.

See her as all things. Sweet, fertile, kind mother goddess. Exotic, languid, hypnotizing erotic goddess. Quiet, still, Elysian angel goddess. Dark, destructive, bloodthirsty Kali goddess. Abundant, joyful, creative goddess. Weeping, shedding, transforming rebirth goddess.

If you want to love a goddess, give her space. Allow her freedom.

And within that space, make it known that she is held.

That she can let go.

That she can lay her body down.

That she no longer is alone in the fight for herself.

That she no longer is alone in caring for herself.

That she can let go.

That she can let go.

That she can let go.

And then, slowly, or all at once, the layers may fall away and you see ‚ÄĒ¬†within her, the Universe. Between you, a force-field.

Because of you, an ascension into her true form.

Because of that, the truth that you are a god.

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Wise words from Mar√≠a Qui√Īel√©n

I found these words on the internet, said by a well known Mapuche Medicine Woman. I think it is beautiful and would like to translate it to English.


“Las mujeres son las que educan a los hombres, a sus hijos, a sus nietos. La mujer es la primera escuela, ya que la primera educaci√≥n que se recibe es la maternal. La mujer es la conocedora de los misterios de la creaci√≥n; ella conoce el misterio del origen de la vida porque ella misma es dadora de vida mediante la concepci√≥n. Si la Mujer est√° sana puede formar una familia y una comunidad sana. Por lo cual la mujer es la que debe reconstruirse para poder tener una sociedad m√°s justa, equilibrada, sabia y arm√≥nica.‚ÄĚ Mar√≠a Qui√Īel√©n, Lawentuchefe (Mujer de Medicina Mapuche)

” Women are the ones who educate men, their children, their grandchildren. The woman is the first school, since the first education that one receives is the maternal one. The woman knows the mysteries of the creation; she knows the mistery of the origin of life because she herself is giver of life through conception. When the woman is healthy she can form a healthy family and community. Therefore women are the ones that¬†should rebuild and heal themselves for there to be¬†a more fair, balanced, wise and harmonious society. “

I would like to add to this:

Men and women should take care of each other, and understand their importance to one another. No man or woman is more or less important than the other. They are created to complement, help and take care of each other. So men, also rebuild and heal yourselves for we need both healthy masculine and feminine energies for there to be balance and harmony in the society.  The seed and the earth need each other equally for nature to flourish.


Why it’s Crucial for Women to Heal the Mother Wound

We essentially are made and born from our mother and father coming together. So not only do our parents obviously influence who we become during our lives with (and without) them, but I think that on a cellular, (un)consciousness level we are made up of a combination of them.

So what I’m starting to wonder and explore, is that to go deeper within ourselves, we need to understand where we come from on a cellular level. And this is the part where I’m not sure yet what has to be done, but I think it has to do with understanding, accepting, forgiving and going beyond your cellular make up and move on to the realization that you are also part of a universal energy that has a potential that is beyond your wildest imagination.

I found this article cruising around on internet, and I think it has pretty interesting information. Understanding and then healing mother (and father) wounds ¬†might be a way for us to move beyond our limitations, fears and conditions and embrace our full potential…

I’m not the expert, i’m just the explorer and the seeker. Maybe this is interesting for you too.

Read the article here: Why it’s Crucial for Women to Heal the Mother Wound

Start Healing Womb Memories


I am not an expert on this area, but hey, I am a woman. Due to past experiences, that I now apreciate and acknowledge, I started exploring my feminine side and femininity more deeply a few years ago. I am still learning and exploring this every day and I love it.

Starting this exploration helped me realize that we as women carry in our womb, our uterus, our sacred space of creation, alot of memories, sometimes treasures, sometimes scars. And on top of that, not only ours, but those of our mothers, grandmothers and female ancestors. Therefore it is important to accept, acknowledge and apreciate all the women in and before your life. Most important is to do the same with the girl, mother, sister, grandmother and woman you are.

As modern women we sometimes lose touch of our feminine side. At least I did. And I had to remember and find out exactly what that means. This brought me to pay more attention to my Yoga teachings with regard to feminine/musculine energy. Feminine, lunar energy attributes are creativity, receiving, feeling,  collaboration, emotional, flexible and intuitive. I am not saying that we need to become only feminine women. As a woman (or a man) we need to balance our masculine and feminine energies. But what I am saying, is that maybe not all women (such as me) are as in contact with their feminine side as they could be.

kundalini-shakti-from-pinterestLadies! We are beautifull, sacred, emotional, intuitive, intelligent, incredibly strong beings, connected to the lunar cylce with our own menstrual cycle, holding the actual pontential of creation within our wombs!

If that is not enough to completely love and respect yourself (and all other women for that matter), then I do not know what is.

To start my exploration this prayer helped me. Honour yourself, honour your ancestors, feeling infinite respect towards them for coming before you to this life.

You can read it, repeat it, rewrite it…whatever you feel suits you. Here I have translated it from the spanish version that I learned.

If you feel like it, you can put your right hand on your heart, and your left hand on your lower belly (uterus).

I recognize the girl inside me.
I recognize the woman inside me.
I recognize the woman that is my mother.
I recognize the woman that is my grandmother.
I recognize all the women who pervade in me. 

I apologize to the girl inside me.
I apologize to the woman inside me.
I apologize to the woman that is my mother.
I apologize to the woman that is my grandmother.
I apologize to all the women who pervade in me. 

I forgive the girl inside me.
I forgive the woman inside me.
I forgive the woman that is my mother.
I forgive the woman that is my grandmother.
I forgive all the women who pervade in me. 

I thank the girl inside me.
I thank the woman inside me.
I thank the woman that is my mother.
I thank the woman that is my grandmother.
I thank all the women who pervade in me. 

I love the girl inside me.
I love the woman inside me.
I love the woman that is my mother.
I love the woman that is my grandmother.
I love all the women who pervade in me. 

I honour the girl inside me.
I honour the woman inside me.
I honour the woman that is my mother.
I honour the woman that is my grandmother.
I honour all the women who pervade in me. 

If you like you can then bring your hands together before your chest (heart centre) and bow down to yourself and the Female Goddess  (inside yourself and all women).